Consent
Consent must be clear, conscious, and can be withdrawn at any time. Silence or intoxication is not consent.
Ljubo-Lover
Truth, Safety, and Recovery
Ljubo-Lover is an informative and safe space for understanding sexual offenses, trauma, and exploitation. This site exists for awareness, recognizing dangerous patterns, and supporting survivors. No excuses for violence. No victim-blaming.
men as victims
trauma
exploitation
safety
Our Values
respect for dignity
believing survivors
zero tolerance for violence
support for LGBT+ and minorities
harm-reduction approach
About Us
Why this project exists
Sexual violence and exploitation often remain invisible, especially when the victims are men or LGBT+ individuals.
The project aims to break myths, reduce stigma, and offer clear information.
The goal is not to shock, but to empower.
Education
How to recognize abuse
Manipulation
Emotional pressure, blackmail, guilt-tripping, or threats are forms of abuse.
Control
Isolation from friends, monitoring communication, or threats of exposure are red flags.
Substances
Using alcohol or drugs to reduce resistance or memory means consent is absent.
Content
Explore Topics
For Survivors
Chemsex Support
For Parents
For Professionals
Risks
Chemsex - risks and reality
Chemsex involves using substances to enhance or facilitate sexual activity. While it can be a choice, it is often used as a tool for exploitation.
Important: Intoxication is not consent. If you were unable to say no, it was not your fault.
Recovery
Understanding Trauma
Trauma is not just a memory; it is a physical and psychological response to overwhelming events. Your body's reaction (freeze, fawn, etc.) was a survival mechanism.
Contact
Where to find help
If you are in immediate danger, call 112 (Emergency Services).
International Support
Please check local resources in your country.
Slovenian Resources
If you are in Slovenia, see our full list of organizations.