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The Cycle

Trauma, Addiction & Discreditation

Perpetrators often target those who are already vulnerable, or use the trauma they've caused to push victims toward addiction—only to use that addiction to silence them later.

The Mechanism

How the cycle works

Self-Medication

Using substances to numb the unbearable pain, anxiety, or flashbacks caused by the abuse.

Weaponized Addiction

The perpetrator provides the substance or encourages its use to maintain control and create dependency.

Discreditation

If the victim speaks out, the perpetrator points to their addiction to claim they are "unreliable," "crazy," or "lying."

Systemic Failure

Authorities may dismiss reports from victims with substance use issues, further isolating them.

Breaking Free

Reclaiming your narrative

Your struggle with addiction is a response to trauma, not a character flaw. It does not make what happened to you any less real or any less of a crime.

  • Separate the Issues: You can seek help for addiction while simultaneously seeking justice or healing for the abuse.
  • Find Non-Judgmental Support: Look for "harm reduction" focused organizations that understand the link between trauma and substance use.
  • Document Everything: Even if you were under the influence, your testimony and any physical evidence are still valid.

You deserve to be heard

No matter your past or your current struggles, you have the right to safety and justice. Your voice matters.